Boudoir Session Client Feature

There are times when I have to let give the reigns to my client. I could not have expressed this time for her any better than she has in her own words…

“There was no space for fear and insecurity. Those energies were not allowed. 

Whether what I have experienced in the past was real or only in my head, for the very first time in my life I had a truly feminine and authentic experience without judgment.  Not only judgment from others but most importantly,  judgment from myself.  I did not know or believe that I was capable or “good enough” until  I heard those words “fall out” for the first time.  At that moment I knew  ‘”Something beautiful just happened and I am it! 

I am unapologetically that woman. 

Most of us, live and will die without experiencing what it truly means for us to explore, understand, appreciate and enjoy our true beauty.  Forget contemporary ideals of what beauty means today. When I speak about beauty,  I mean the essence of who we truly are individually. Many of us have watched our mothers and grandmothers live and die this way.   

Everything that we as women do is shaped by cultural norms and perceptions. Norms and perceptions that have their basis in the ideals of men.  What should be and what is considered feminine is based on the male ideal of the length and texture of the hair and the color and texture of our skin. The shape of the body and its proportionality.  And the list goes on.  Everyone on earth deserves to be able to stand in the shadow of who we authentically are.  A true conscious awakening, real self-actualization, and realization can never occur until you are face-to-face with yourself.  When you see her staring back at you and come face to face with that raw, unaltered image of her looking back at you; what else can you do? What else will you do?  But fall in love with her.  

Every woman deserves the experience of being something other than what cultural norms say they should be. Every woman deserves the experience of her nudity without believing that she is engaging in blasphemy. 

Every woman deserves the experience of truly falling in love with herself.” – Ms. L

Aniya, xo